People who do the above listed actions are genuinely trying to be polite by not jumping right into the request which is fantastic, but it's 2024 and the world is consistently evolving with fast paced working environments.
For most people, typing is much slower than talking. So despite best intentions, you're actually just making the other person wait for you to phrase your question or statement, which is lost productivity and extremely annoying.
As the saying goes, patience is a virtue. You can't just demand from someone for a service, request or response if you haven't been reasonable back to them. Take a moment to think about what you are wanting to achieve before making a conversation extremely awkward.